Burial and Cremation
The Church prefers burial, as it reflects our belief in the resurrection of the body. Cremation is permitted, provided it is chosen for legitimate reasons and not as a denial of Christian belief. Ashes should be laid to rest reverently in a cemetery or sacred place.
If you are unsure about any aspect of this, we will guide you gently.
Music and Readings
Sacred music and Scripture are chosen carefully to reflect Christian hope. Popular secular songs are not usually permitted within the liturgy itself, but may be shared at a gathering afterwards.
We will help you select appropriate readings from the Bible, and family members are welcome to read if they feel able.
Offering and Practical Matters
There is no “fee” for a funeral Mass — the Church does not sell the sacraments. There is, however, a customary offering to support the parish and clergy, and funeral directors will usually advise on this.
If cost is a concern, please speak to us. No one will ever be denied the Church’s prayers because of financial difficulty.
Ongoing Prayer
Our care does not end on the day of the funeral. The departed will be remembered in parish prayer, especially during the month of November and at anniversary Masses.
You may also wish to have Mass offered for your loved one in the months following their death — a beautiful and powerful gift.
